Content warning: discussions of domestic abuse and tactics
When people hear about survivors of narcissistic abuse or domestic violence, the immediate reaction is often judgment. “Why didn’t they leave sooner?” “Why didn’t they speak up?” These questions reflect a lack of understanding about the deeply complex trauma involved in these situations. Survivors often face skepticism, disbelief, and even blame, especially if they didn’t report the abuse right away. This response not only dismisses the survivor’s pain but also ignores the complex dynamics of trauma, manipulation, and psychological torment.